Tuesday, December 6, 2011

RELATIONSHIP, SINGLES & COUPLES BIBLIOGRAPHY






... a selection of useful titles ... by no means exhaustive

   LGBT titles appear in lavender.  What else?



Bloch, J. (2000) Find Your Leading Man. New York: St. Martin's Griffin.

Brass, P. (1999) How to Survive Your Own Gay Life: an adult guide to love, sex and relationships. Bronx, NY: Belhue Press.

Chapman, G. (1992) The Five Love Languages. Chicago: Northfield.

DeAngelis, B. (1992) Are You the One for Me? New York: Dell.

Freedman, J., & Combs, G. (2002) Narrative Therapy with Couples. Adelaide, Australia: Dulwich Centre Publications.

Furrow, J., Johnson, S., & Bradley, B. (2011) The Emotionally Focused Casebood: new directions in treating couples. New York: Routledge.

Gottman, J. & Silver, N. (1999 ) The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York: Three Rivers Press.

Greenberg, L. & Goldman, R. (2008) Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy. Washington, DC: APA Press.

Greenwald., R. (2003) Finding a Husband After 35. New York: Ballantine.

Hendericks, G. & Hendricks, K. (1992) Conscious Loving: The journey to co-comitment. New York: Bantam.

Hendrix, H., Hunt, H., Hannah, M., & Luquet, W. (2005). Imago Relationship Therapy. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.

Hoffman, E., & Weiner, E. (2003) The Love Compatibility Book. Novato, CA: New World Library.

Isensee., R. (1997) Reclaiming Your Life: the gay man's guide to love, self-acceptance and trust. Los Angeles: Alyson.

Johnson, S. (1996) The practice of emotionally focused marital therapy: creating connection. 2nd ed. New York: Brunner/Mazel.

Johnson S., Bradley, B., Furrow, J., Lee, A., Palmer, G., Tilley, D., & Woolley S. (2005) Becoming an Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist: the workbook. New York: Routledge.

Johnson, S., & Whiffen, V., eds. (2003) Attachment Processes in Couple and Family Therapy. New York: Guilford.

Kroeger, O., & Thuesen, J. (1994) 16 Ways to Love Your Lover: understanding the 16 personality types to create a love that lasts forever. New York: Delacorte Press.

Marcus. E. (1999) The Male Couple's Guide. 3rd ed. New York: Harper Collins.

Nimmons, D. (2002) The Soul Beneath the Skin. New York: St. Martin's Griffin.

Page, S., (2002) If I'm So Wonderful, Why an I Still Single? New York: Three Rivers Press.

Perel, Esther. (2006) Mating in Captivity. New York: Harper-Collins.

Real, Terrence. (2007) The New Rules of Marriage. New York: Random House.

Rosenberg, M. (2003) Nonviolent Communication: a language of life. 2nd ed. Encinitas, CA: Puddle Dancer Press.

Rosenberg, M. (2005) The Surprising Purpose of Anger. Encinitas, CA: Puddle Dancer Press.

Solomon, M., & Tatkin, S. (2011) Love & War in Intimate Relationships. New York: Norton.

Steele, David (2008) Conscious Dating: Finding the love of your life and the life that you love. 2nd ed. Campbell, CA.: RCN Press.
Tatkin, S. (2006) “Addiction to 'Alone Time:' Avoidant attachment, narcissism and a one-person psychology within a two-person psychological system.” The Therapist, 57 (Jan/Feb)

Tatkin, S. (2009)  "The plight of the avoidantly attached partner in couples therapy:  I want you in the house, just not in my room ... unless I ask you."   New Therapist, July/August. 
Tatkin, S. (2011a) “Allergic to Hope: Angry resistant attachment and a one-person psychology within a two-person psychological system.” Psychotherapy in Australia, 18(1), 66-73. 

Tatkin, S. (2011b). "Ten Commandments for Relationship Essentials."  In J. Zeig & T. Kulbatsk (Eds.), For Couples: Ten Commandments for Every Aspect of Your Relationship Journey. Phoenix: Milton Erickson Foundation. 
Tatkin. S.(2012 )  "What is PACT?  What does a PACT session look like? "  Online at:   http://stantatkin.com/twostackpage/what-is-pact/    (also see Wetherford below)

Tatkin, S. (2011c)  Wired for Love:  How understanding your partner's brain and attachment style can help you defuse conflict and build a secure relationship.  Oakland, CA:  New Harbinger.
 
Tessina, T., & Smith, R. (1980) How to Be a Couple & Still Be Free. Hollywood, CA: Newcastle.
Tessina, T. (1989) Gay Relationships: How to find them, improve them and make them last. New York: Putnam.
Tieger, P. & Tieger, B. (2000) Just Your Type: create the relationship you've always wanted using the secrets of personality type. New York: Little, Brown & Co.

Vanzant, Iyanla (1998) In the Meantime: finding yourself and the love you want. New York: Fireside.

Wetherford, Ruth. (2011) "Stan Tatkin on a Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy." http://www.psychotherapy.net/interview/stan-tatkin#top